How The Journeys May Impact Your Life

Journeys—whether shamanic, flower guided, energetic, or otherwise—are about traveling, not getting to a destination. 

Although every journey is different, they often have one thing in common: they expand your consciousness and energy.

How this translates in each person’s life, will vary greatly from person to person.

When I started journeying more frequently, I noticed a few new things that me (and my clients’ too) began to experience: 

  • A deeper internal peace–a dropping away of always feeling rushed, overcommitted, or like I did something wrong 

  • An increased ability to rest in the present moment and not try to change, transcend or fix it 

  • Less getting caught in stories like “I never get what I want” (but everyone else does!) or thinking I need more, more MORE, good stuff!

  • A greater compassion and gentle witnessing of old patterns in me (and others) 

  • An increased ability to stay with the deep feels, judge them less and return to regulation in my nervous system

  • A dissolving of the need to hold it all together, aka control myself (and manage others!)

  • Less apologizing for my needs, being ok with saying no and living with a greater resolve to do what is best for me

  • An increase in presence and heart connection to my kids and an allowing them have their own journey

  • A dissolving of the desire to figure everything out and allowing the answers to arrive through intuition, inspiration, or body-knowing instead

  • A deeper love and appreciation for this temple called a human body and this life

  • A falling away of the constant self improvement operating system and deeper connection to our innate wholeness.

  • A greater comfort in living in the unknown, uncertainty and mystery of life

  • Increased desire to be in nature and allow myself to be nourished there

  • Losing who I thought I was and uncovering who I actually am

  • A shifting to a totally new orientation what it really means to be productive

  • An ability to hold myself in all the messiness and know when to ask for help

  • More courage to stay in the fire and less tendency to run away

  • Getting more comfortable with cosmic rebirthing–an awareness of parts that were dying and being rebirthed

  • Experiencing more beauty, joy and wonder from simple things in my life

 Something to note: These things were not goals that I set out to achieve or get, but rather experiences that just started dropping in —unfolding naturally, like a blossoming bud.

Who This Work Is or Isn’t For 

This work IS for anyone who:

  • May have had a tendency toward hustling, grasping, intellectualizing, or doing

  • Is ready to live a life of being and would guidance in this realm

  • Is ready to focus on love, flow, and abiding in their true essence 

  • Interested in living into questions and the unknown

  • Is ready to receive nourishment, expand their consciousness  

This work ISN’T for those who:

  • Want definitive answers

  • Prefer certainty

  • Want a guru or an expert 

Who Can Benefit From This Type of Work?

This work is for you if you:

  • Often feel like a  peacemaker–always bending and flexing and adjusting yourself, overly accommodating to make sure others feel okay. 

  • You often think you did something wrong.

  • Don’t believe that you really can feel good—or that some big sacrifice or effort must be made to have anything good happen.

  • Feel like it isn’t OK to take up space.

  • Long to be held and guided

  • Find yourself being overly mindful of everyone else… and worrying about how or what I did might affect them.

  • Say yes, when you might really want to say no.

  • Overgive and feel worn out or resentful about that

  • It’s hard to let go of relationships even if they are no longer good for you. 

  • Work hard or always try really hard and feel tired of that.

  • Have poor boundaries and want to find your voice

  • Want to experience a new way to feel supported because you have tried ALL the other therapies, and you’re done “processing.” 

When You Work With Us

If you’re tired of working with “gurus” and giving your power away to pursue other people’s way of doing life, welcome home. The flowers and I advocate for a style of collaboration that brings forward your wisdom. Therefore, we ask that you agree to the following agreements before you begin working with us. 

Yes, I agree to:

AN ORIENTATION OF BEING

I realize these teachings aren’t for me to consider on an intellectual level, rather, they are meant to focus me more deeply upon my experience of being, my most direct and immediate experience of being.

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MYSELF

I agree not to abdicate my power. I am my inner authority, and although DD may state things like they are true or false, the reality of the statements are meant to be confirmed by my own experience.

SEE THESE TEACHINGS AS A POINT OF EXPLORATION

I understand that these teachings aren’t meant to give me answers but rather evoke my own truth, to help me question the answers that I may already have.

PRACTICE SELF-INQUIRY AND HONESTY

I understand these teachings are points of investigation or invitations to go underneath what I believe, and that curiosity and a spirit of neutrality are my allies. I agree to live into the questions and  “stay in the fire” even though sometimes honesty and truth may feel uncomfortable.

HOLD LIFE AS SACRED

I agree that this applies not only to myself, but to all of humanity. May all beings be happy. May all beings be free. May all beings be at peace.